Check out how Cherished Cherubs can help put the mojo back in your love life after children.
The way we figure it, if you have children you must have had some sort of sex life at some point. Oh, my how that changes when the kids come along!
They make us too tired; they have impeccable timing day and night, they are teething or sick, they take up so much time and energy, not to mention killing the romance we once had. It’s amazing how we even get to make a second and third child!
We need to nurture our relationships as much as we need to nurture our children. So why do relationships often become a second priority, or worse still, a forgotten priority? Missed hook ups and relationship break ups come from a lack of communication and lack of intimacy. So, will you let those things destroy your relationship?
How will you get the romance back into your relationship? It takes effort and action, otherwise the intimacy and romance you and your partner crave will only ever be a conversation. Here are some suggestions to get the ball rolling:
Find an activity (which does not include the children) – book your favourite restaurant, dance to the early hours at a live concert, improve your tan and go to the beach together; you get the idea… now for the action…
- Pick a date and time
- Book a reliable babysitter.
- Go on your date – Lock it in, do it, do not reschedule if you are tired or unenthused. Make the effort (it’s often these times that you need the night out most).
- Book the next date night straight away to happen within the month. Even better, put them all in your calendar for the next 12 months.
You know that feeling when you have unwound, had some adult conversation, had a few laughs, good food and wine, smiled and focussed on yourself and your partner. Chatted about the important ‘things’ before they become issues, you feel close again. Chances are, that you will remember why you are attracted to each other and your mojo is re-ignited.
Go ahead, book online at: Cherished Cherished Babysitting and hope the kids sleep through that night!